#Selfcheck! When you walk into a room, what kind of vibes are you releasing? Are people attracted to you? Are they scurrying to get away from you? Or are you to busy focusing on yourself that you don’t even take into account your surroundings?


I believe that each one of us can be a light for someone. We can be that ray of sunshine that pierces through their dark clouds. But first, we should stop focusing on us and really see them. Lift up your eyes from your phone! Lift up your eyes from your situation… and maybe you’ll realize that you don’t have it so bad after all. Don’t get me wrong! I’ve been guilty of brushing off others because I didn’t want to “deal” with them. I’ve been guilty of asking “How are you?” and hoping for a quick answer because I was too busy focusing on myself or let me say it plainly… I was too busy being selfish!



img_0963Don’t always try to veer the conversation to you.. what you’ve accomplished etc.. but instead be a listener. The world is full of talkers and so little listeners. Be that mindful ear that everyone needs.


Until next time,


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